Autism dating and socialization
Having successful friendships can set the groundwork for successful dating later on.
If you can’t have a friendship, how can you expect to have an intimate relationship with someone?
If she sees you using some basic manners and always trying to do the right thing, she’s more likely to be forgiving if you haven’t mastered other social skills. I made friends with girls in my high school classes who I could ask questions about what girls expected or would like.
An older sister or even your mom can be a great source of information. Maybe you’ll find her in astronomy club or in fencing class. The better she knows you, the less risk she takes in going out with you — and the less risk you take that you won’t have anything to talk about. SEVEN: When you ask a girl on a date, make it specific. ” is really asking her to pass judgment on you as a person.
It’s more likely to make her frustrated because you think you’re smart enough to solve a problem and that she couldn’t.
Assume that a girl cares as much about her interests as you do yours and her opinions are just as valid.You may want to disclose your Asperger Syndrome, but even if you don’t, you can always explain that you just don’t get something and ask for help figuring it out.Consider joining a support group for teens or adults on the spectrum.If she doesn’t accept your second offer and doesn’t suggest an alternative, she’s probably not interested.You could wait a few more days and ask her out again, but two or three attempts without encouragement from a girl is a pretty clear indication that it’s best to move on and focus on someone else. One of the biggest mistakes guys make is talking too much about themselves or their interests.