Help with dating again
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These feelings are normal, O’Reilly says, but they may not mean what we think they mean.“[These feelings] don’t necessarily mean you’re not over the person and that you want to be with them again,” O’Reilly says. Figure out what your plan is.”If you prefer the old-school method of meeting someone through friends, don’t be shy to let your friends know your newly single status and that you’re ready to date.“You never know, that person might have a cousin or know someone who would be great for you.”“If you don’t speak up, people aren’t going to know,” O’Reilly adds.
“It could be indicative that you are struggling with what happened in the relationship or something from the breakup that’s upsetting you.”She adds, “Maybe it’s the way you behaved — what you said or didn’t say. If there’s one thing that O’Reilly wants people to stop doing, it’s the idea of finding “the one.”“There are many possibilities of ‘ones’ you can be with — not just one person,” O’Reilly says.“However, don’t be discouraged if you meet a few people who aren’t good matches for you.
So sometimes if we look to those aspects of the breakup, we learn more about ourselves and we come to acknowledge that we didn’t really want to be with that person anyway.”There are many ways in which people can find dates nowadays — it just depends on what you’re comfortable with.“Find out what dating platform works best for you,” Tebb advises. You have to go through a few before you do find someone who is a decent match.”READ MORE: Taking a break from your relationship?
Knowing the answers to these questions, she says, is great practice and can help you facilitate a conversation with nice back-and-forth flow.
We’ve all had that moment after a breakup when we felt like we missed the other person.