Men and dating rules
And the second because I think someone who is truly happy in their skin will treat you well and allow you to be your best self.
Beau: Women are amazingly complex creatures and I think that’s what we as men love about them so much.
How hard is it to send a text, “Hey, it was great to meet you and I did have a great time, but I think we’d be better as friends.” We all know what that means, but at least he’s let you go without you wondering whether you should send him text to check if he got the last one.
Beau: One thing I wish women knew is that sometimes, guys just don’t feel like communicating.
Whether it’s gardening, ballroom dancing or scuba diving, having something they love, that they can share with you is one of the great things about being in a relationship.
I think men need to realise that women are just as frustrated and scared by the whole dating process as they are and that even a simple ‘hello’ can make a world of difference. Us women have such a tough time trying to make sure we’re approachable but not a ‘floozy’, that we are mysterious, but not rude, and that we show enough interest so he knows we’re keen, but not too much that he assumes we’re desperate! So really, as long as it takes to make sure the clothes are looking good and the grooming ritual is complete! I like to keep my make-up quite natural, but if it’s a Saturday night and we are going somewhere fancy, I’ll do my hair.
Then I usually have some sort of outfit crisis and then finally, after I put on what I tried on first, I spend a few minutes doing last minute things like adding jewellery, spritzing perfume, applying moisturiser to my legs and looking for my keys and phone…
Harriet: Is it bad to say that I call my best friend and give her a minute by minute account of how the night went down?!
Other than that, I would say my only other rituals are taking off my heels and tieing up my hair! I don’t think there’s a finite amount of time that determines this for everyone, but I always think about it in relation to invitations.