Men dating a virgin
I went from having lots of sex in college to having no sex.It's been two years now and it's not really easy, but it's worth it. I do know the road gets easier the more we go and I am looking forward to it.. I'm 17(turning 18 in about 2 hours) and get teased for being a virgin by choice.From a guy who is sexually frustrated and waiting for marriage - a man is a man. We are suppose to be built for adversity and difficulty.With the grace of God - we protect you, make you feel safe, and let you know that U are the best thing that has ever and will happen to us in this life.If you truly love her, use this opportunity to build up your self-discipline and find yourself, whatever that means. You stop despairing as much, and I honestly believe God lightens your load. The time spent has been wonderful though, I think that whats makes it easier. People tell me the only reason I'm a virgin is because I can't get laid, and it's really hard to explain to them my reasoning for wanting to wait for it. It sucks less than being alone, never having had a fulfilling relationship and no hope of this changing for the foreseeable future.Being in touch with your emotions and valuing love over your desires is not a very popular thing in high school! E: Sorry for being on edge, this touched a nerve with me as I can't stand people whining about their relationships when they have a perfectly decent one, seeing as I've only ever been in 2 shitty ones...you had read more than the first line, you would have realized that he's not really whining at all.Which was the best choice because that relationship went down in flames. Woman to woman, the first time, whether it is amazing or not, will leave you with a hard-to-explain bond to your husband that you will never have with another man. A person has social, intellectual, spiritual, emotional, physical dimensions.
My romantic life however is a bone dry desert in the peak of famine, and honestly, I mean it when I say: thanks be to God.
It's like a child crying about not being able to swim in the puddle of water by the road when they have access to the beach.
While I agree that people who want to wait should wait, and that wish should absolutely be respected, I think your post kind of shames people who don't choose that route.
I think my problem was more along the lines of confidence. Looking back, I'm somewhat happy that I didn't get a girlfriend during my younger years because I'm sure I would have made a mistake.
At 25 I was surprisingly close to sleeping with this girl who I've had a history with.