What to say when dating
So guys struggle NOT because they’re unattractive but because, in part, the competition is intense. Without knowing all the Tinder hacks, good guys get few to zero matches/dates. Women are actually very forgiving in this department, because hey—it’s texting, not your college thesis. But if you don’t know the difference between “your” and “you’re,” then YOU’RE gonna miss out on dates with intelligent, classy women.
And they’re left feeling understandably frustrated. In my Facebook group, How to Be Your Best Self & Get the Girl, I hear it all the time: “Tinder doesn’t work… I recently checked out a client’s recent text exchanges with a girl who went quiet. A client was afraid to tell women that he’s in college.
It’s true that first dates can be one of the most nerve-wracking, anxiety-producing situations in our society.
Sometimes they lead to burning love sometimes they go down in flames.
This method is simple, direct and doesn't take a lot of preparation, so if you're nervous you can't go wrong.
If, for example, the first 20 minutes you spend with her is devoted to your recent consternation with traffic congestion, you are likely to lose her attention. Sometimes the two of you may run out of things to say for a moment.Just as you’re not attracted to every woman you interact with, she’s not into every guy. Go bend your bartender’s ear about it, but don’t send her 17 drunken, “butt-hurt” texts. After dedicating your time searching and fielding through profiles, you finally had an online witty conversation with a possible-match and you’re ready to take your could-be relationship offline.And NEVER write anything negative or disrespectful towards her.Like you, she’s just trying to make a romantic connection while navigating the often scary/confusing dating world.